Gay movies brought me fame – Benson

Benson Okonkwo

Controversial actor and model, Benson Okonkwo, speaks with JAYNE AUGOYE about issues revolving around his sexuality

When Nollywood actor and model, Benson Okonkwo, starred in a 2010 gay movie titled ‘One dollar’, he incurred the wrath of many movie fans. At the time, his critics were asking questions about his sexuality in real life.

Unperturbed by the outrage, the Enugu State-born actor has since appeared in two other films of the same theme as One dollar.  They are Pregnant Hawker and The Strippers.

But, Okonkwo, who has 30 movies to his credit, says he is unhappy about the negative reactions that trailed his decision to star in those movies. He insists that the public is ignorant of the fact that actions in movies are not real.

“Although these movies sparked off controversy about my sexuality, I make bold to say that Nigerians are hypocrites. They secretly enjoy watching porn movies, yet when they see Nigerian movies that contain suggestive scenes, they secretly watch them online and then drop anonymous comments. I am

only acting and doing my job.

“Although I have acted as a homosexual three times, I am afraid of being tagged a stereotyped actor. Despite the fact that the gay controversy has brought me fame, I want people to remember that I have not starred in only gay or adult films. Contrary to what some persons think, I have never been sexually harassed by homosexuals. I am not a homosexual.”

Notwithstanding the negative comments, he says it took much willpower to get into character. “It was hard for me to accept the role at first, and it took a lot of convincing and support from the director before I could play the role,” he says.

Admitting that the ‘pay was right,’ Okonkwo says he enjoys the support of his loved ones in spite of the criticism. He says, “My family understands that I am only acting and the roles have nothing to do with my personal life or character, that’s why they stood by me and continue to stand by me. I believe that versatility is one thing any actor must possess, that way, he or she stands out.”

A few days ago, the actor made newspaper headlines after he shared a painful childhood experience online, in which he claimed that he was sexually abused.

Recounting his experience to our correspondent in a telephone interview, he said, “I was sexually abused at the age of 10 by a 35 –year-old neighbour of mine named Amaka. She lives abroad at present. I loved and respected her, but she took advantage of me one afternoon, after luring me with sweets and biscuits.

She stole my innocence and ever since, I have been haunted by that painful and unforgettable memory,” he says in an emotion laden voice.

Explaining why he decided to open up on the incident, Okonkwo says, “I feel free talking about it because I have kept the secret for many years. I think I am the first celebrity to do this openly. Now I feel relieved and happier than ever. Interestingly, the incident changed my love for women.

“I am not randy or loose. I handle my female fans diplomatically. I don’t want to take advantage of my fans. The moment I start sleeping with them, I will lose it.”

 However, the actor is unhappy that the art of filmmaking is largely unappreciated in Nigeria. But he has his eyes fixed on the big picture in the nearest future.

“Hollywood is my limit. I also hope to begin an NGO for the less privileged and models in Nigeria,” he says.